In Her Own Words
About Her
These are some of the things you should know about me (full details available on request):
I have two dogs. One is a complete dote, the other…less so. It’s not his fault; he’s been through a lot. You’ll need patience to earn his trust, but once earned, you couldn't wish for a more enthusiastic and loving companion.
I’ve been married three times. Divorced twice, widowed once. When I say “three weddings and a funeral”, people don’t know whether to laugh or not.
I’m not sure either.
I was born and raised in England, but I'm also an Irish citizen.
I’m messy except when it comes to my kitchen cupboards/presses, where I am obsessively particular.
I can overthink most decisions and situations, but sometimes I don't think at all.
I am a walking contradiction.
I am studying for a BA in writing and literature with only one year left to go.
When I'm not writing, cooking, or watching the dogs sleep, I might be snoozing, walking, staring out the window (it is a beautiful view), or watching appalling TV.
If you have read this far and still think you might contact me, you might deserve some sort of medal.
If you are a catfish, faker, illusionist, time-waster, delusionist, or fake profiler, then, well, say hello anyway.
It’s always interesting to hear from the other side.
About Her Ideal Match
I had a list of the normal things (funny, creative, caring, attentive, interesting, tall, dark, handsome and so on). But as much as I love a good list, they don't seem to work for relationships, not for me. Someone could appear perfect according to a 'match', but then they are very much not. This may be why I have so little faith in online dating. However, nothing ventured, nothing gained and all that.
That said, if all your responses sound like a chatbot is doing the work for you, I can't see a friendship blossoming.
What Her Friends Say
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About Her
Country of Origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Bantry (Durrus), South-West, Ireland | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star Sign: |
Leo | |
Height: |
159cm (5' 2.6") | |
Body Type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Blonde | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
English | |
Other Languages: |
None | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Friends; Open to possibilities; Short-term; Long-term; Marriage | |
Have Children: |
No | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Current University / College Student | |
Occupation: |
Self-employed | |
Income: |
Enough |
About Her Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in Ireland | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age Range: |
40 - 67 | ||
Star Sign: |
Aries; Gemini; Leo; Sagittarius | ||
Height: |
173cm (5' 8.1") - 210cm (6' 10.7") or taller | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Below Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Slightly important | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian; Vegan | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Her
Hair Style: |
Long; Curly; Wild; Out of control; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
Pierced ears; Several tattoos |
Sense of Humour: |
Sophisticated |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party Behaviour: |
An exhibitionist |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Funny; Intelligent; Outgoing; Realistic; Sarcastic |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Forgiveness; Honesty; Hope; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Patience; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Folk; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae; World |
Reading: |
There's nothing better |
Books: |
Best-sellers; Crime; Fiction; Mystery; Sci-Fi |
TV Habits: |
There're several shows I watch regularly |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Dramas; Movie Channels; Sci-Fi |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Art Films; Comedy; Cult Classics; Drama; Independent; Mystery; Romance; Sci-Fi |
Interests: |
Cooking; Meditation; Painting; Photography; Reading; Writing books |
Sport Involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Sports: |
Running; Swimming; Walking |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Doesn't matter; Fast food; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Japanese; Pub Grub; Seafood; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I only eat out on special occasions |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Disorganised |
Time at Work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Napping |
Time Online: |
Once or twice a week |
Family Size: |
I've got brothers and sisters |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s) |
Work Aspirations: |
Work fewer hours |
Religious Attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Very Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Widows & Widowers Ireland: |
Nervous; Hopeful; Curious; Embarrassed; Optimistic; Excited; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |